Let’s start with a good rule of thumb: Sexually active relationships should be limited to committed or exclusive situations.
I’m not going to preach morality to you, and I understand this is the 21st century.
Contact is reciprocal, time is made to see each other, and forward movement is evident. The hot phase is designed to get you in the gate that leads to the corral, where you'll later be harnessed. Your partner begins to pull away making you long for their previous attention.
Whether initiated by a cold-shoulder, avoidance, or lack of communication... This phase activates loss, making you yearn for them and wait with bated breath for their call or text. These are the basic dance steps to this type of behavior. This formula is predictable and consistent even when your partner's reactions are not.
But, if you are on a train to a meaningful, lasting partnership and he’s on a trolley car with a sex stop at every street corner, it’s a recipe for disaster. To varying degrees, men like a few particular things about a woman. They like the warmth of your heart and the support of your kindness and tender touch. A good relationship depends on a healthy balance of all of these things.
It’s possible she is in “pimp mode” and taking advantage of their interest in her.
You may express your concern but she will simply shoot it down and make you seem like you are being unreasonable.
Dating a player is a huge challenge and it’s not every woman’s dream.
But sometimes a woman falls in love so quickly and strongly that she doesn’t want to realize that she is dating a player.